How To Repent of Your Insecurity

āI know itās not real, but Iām still afraid.ā My son said this to me as he jumped into my arms when we were walking through a neighborhood full of shockingly creepy Halloween decorations. There was a robotic werewolf wrestling against the bars of a cage, shrouded in haze and flashing lights. āThatās okay, my […]
Young Men Need More than Pragmatic Advice

Young men arenāt doing well. In 2022, among those ages 10 to 24, males accounted for 78 percent of fatal suicide attempts. In 2023, males who graduated from high school were about 8 percent less likely to enroll in college. The labor-force participation rate has dropped around 10 percent for young men ages 20 to 24 in the last 30 years; […]
Feasting isnāt gluttony

āWhen are you going to teach on gluttony? You couldnāt pay me to have sex out of marriage or steal, but I will eat a bag of chips and a box of cookies at the same time in my living room watching TV. The guilt? Itās horrible.ā I received this message from a congregant. I […]
Be inconsiderate to AI

āSay please and thank you.ā When I first got an Apple HomePod that was powered by Siri, Appleās AI personality, I was concerned about the speech I was modeling for my children. Iād bark at Siri, making short, impersonal demands. At the same time, I was resolved to teach my kids the basic manners of […]
Why (Really) Do We Become Prayerless?

āI havenāt prayed in a while.ā I say this to myself too often. How long has it been? Sometimes a few hours, sometimes most of a day (or more). Where has my mind been? Where has my heart been? I sense the gentle but corrective nudge of the Father. He gets my attention by implanting […]
Grieve with your LDS friends

āThey are attacking us like never before. We have to stick together. We have to resolve to be loud and public about our faith.ā My Latter-day Saint (LDS/Mormon) friend who is a bishop said this to me the day after the brutal ramming, shooting, and arson at the LDS Stake (church building) that left many […]
How Should Pastors Respond to Charlie Kirkās Assassination?

Iwas waiting for my lunch appointment to arrive when I saw the video on X. In my gut, I knew Charlie Kirk was going to die. The brutalityāand grim clarityāof the clip made my heart drop. My first thought: His wife. His Kids. My second thought: My congregation. What do they need? How many will be heartbroken? […]
Just Discard Human Dignity

Silicon Valley and the technocrat-futurists want to redefine what it means to have a child, but their aims and technologies can be horrifying. Consider what Noor Siddiqui, founder and CEO of tech company Orchid, said in a recent X post: āWhen I was in elementary school, my mom started going blind. Retinitis pigmentosa. No family […]
The Masculinity Pyramid

We are in a masculinity crisis; young men often feel as though they must choose between the way of Andrew Tate and the way of self-hating androgyny. In developing a response to the crisis, many begin with disciplines of sociology or biology, hoping to find a masculine or feminine vision in either history or zoology.Ā
Pastor, Donāt Skip the Sex Talk

āI wish I had heard this 60 years ago.ā She was in her 70s, wiping her eyes as she approached me after the worship service. Iād just preached on the holiness of sex out of 1 Corinthians 6. āI came of age in the ā60s,ā she said. āI was force-fed the āfree loveā stuff. Sex […]